Friday, April 18, 2008

STOPPED BY A COP

Yup, it happened. I was stopped by a cop Thursday, April 17, 2008 at, or around 4:00 p.m. in Loa, Utah. I have not been stopped by a cop in 25 or 30 years. It may be longer than that. This is only the fourth time I’ve ever been stopped by a cop. I have received two speeding tickets (one of which I should have gone to court and fought because I think it was bogus). The third time I was stopped I guess I was speeding but I didn’t know it because the speedometer didn’t indicate that I was speeding. You see, Jack had just put BIG tires on the pick-up I was driving and when you change the size of the tires from what they were when you bought the vehicle your speedometer doesn’t accurately tell you how fast you are going. The officer asked me if I knew I was speeding and I told him that I didn’t. I rarely ever went more than a couple of miles over the speed limit. Fortunately, Patti was with me that day. She spoke right up and said, “My mother never speeds! She’s the most boring driver I know.” The officer laughed and said, “Okay, I believe you.” Then he looked at me and told me that I’d better have the speedometer checked.

Okay, so those are my experiences with being stopped by cops. But let me start at the beginning. Yesterday was a gorgeous day and quite warm. A nurse had called and told me that Jack’s and my prescriptions were ready to be picked up (for Medicare, Part D). I told Jack I needed to go get them and asked him if he’d like to ride along. He said, “Sure.” We drove over to the clinic in Bicknell. I ran in, well, actually, I walked as fast as I could, and when I got back in the van I asked Jack if he’d like to see the campground where Juli and her sisters and their families and I had enjoyed an Easter picnic. (Jack didn’t want to go to the picnic but I went, anyway and had an absolutely delightful time.) He said he’d like to see the campground so I drove over there. It was just a couple of miles away. It’s a really nice campground and the hills were wonderful for the kids to roll their Easter eggs. After that, I drove around the new Wayne County Community Center so he’d know where I go when I help out at the Senior’s lunches. He had never been there, either.

We left Bicknell on our way back to Loa and Jack asked if we could take the “Big Rocks Road” past the airport---so we did. Just as we were getting back to town on the Big Rocks Road, Jack said, “What is that big metal building over there?” I said, “Let’s go see.” I knew what it was but we were in no particular hurry and he was really enjoying the drive so I signaled for a left-hand turn. The cop was stopped at a stop sign on the right side of the road. I turned left and drove up the street and turned right at the next corner in order for Jack to see what the building is. As I approached the street in front of the building I signaled for a right-hand turn, braked slightly and turned the corner. That was when I realized the cop was still following me and he had his lights flashing. I immediately pulled over and stopped. I watched him in the outside mirror and I didn’t recognize the face so I knew he wasn’t the Sheriff. When he got to my door he looked in the said, “Do you know that one of your brake lights isn’t working?” I replied, “No, I didn’t know that.” He said, “Yes, the brake light on the driver’s side is not working.” “Well, I’d better call Gary (Brian Auto) and get it taken care of,” I said.
And he said, “Yeh, you could call Gary or you could just have Tal replace the bulb.” I laughed, because then I knew that he knew who we are even though we didn’t know who he is.

Now, is that the cutest, or what? It is very comforting to know, at our age, that someone is looking out for us and it’s not necessarily our immediate family doing it all of the time. I love that part of living in a small town. As a matter of fact, I can’t think of anything I don’t like about living in a small town. Of course, I was raised in a small town where people more or less looked after each other, so why would Loa be any different?

Juli stopped by the house shortly after we got home and I shared our little adventure with her. We laughed and rejoiced in the whole thing all over again. She told us that if one of the teenagers in the County gets stopped for speeding, or whatever, the parents know about it before the kid gets home. Knowing that may make the teenagers think twice about doing something they know they shouldn’t do. I think that’s great! I’m sure Juli told Tal about me when she got home. I haven’t talked to Tal, yet, so I haven’t heard whether the deputy called Tal and said, “Hey, I just stopped your mother.” It makes me laugh just to think about it. I hope the deputy did call Tal.

Perhaps I should add one more thing to this little story. After Juli left our house I went into the family room and sat down to go through the mail. Jack and I laughed, again, about the cop stopping me and then he said, “I really enjoyed the ride today. You are really a good and careful driver.”

12 comments:

Rica said...

No way! I have the coolest Grandma ever!

Nathan said...

Agreed sis.

juli said...

Yes, you do have the coolest Grandma ever!
I love how you write - it sounds just like you tell it.
I am sad to report that the deputy (Chris) did not call Tal to report you. It is still a funny story and completely normal for our little town!
~Glad Dad agreed you are a good driver!

rbryant said...

Don't those flashing lights get your heart pumping a little? Shanna's surprised how few times I've been pulled over since I seem to break traffic laws all the time like signaling, walk speed through stop signs, etc. I have noticed a definite need not to speed as I get older and more cautiousness.

I can't imagine a policeman giving you a ticket. You could talk your way out of most anything just by smiling!

Marilyn Ehlers said...

rbryant--yes, the flashing lights do get the heart pumping a little even though you can't imagine why in the world you are being stopped. I had not thought about my rear brake lights being a problem inasmuch as I have the vehicles inspected each year but I guess the lights can be working one day and not the next. And, it's darn hard to push on the brake, jump out of the vehicle and run to the back fast enough to see whether the brake lights are on. But, since my "little incident" I've figured out something I can do to check on them every once in a while. I can back up between the street and my lawn so that I can see the reflection of my rear lights in our "picture window" and voila, everything is clear. I did that after I had the light replaced--just to be sure both brake lights were working. Jack was in the van with me and kept saying, "What are you doing?"

Yeah, I learned a long time ago that speeding doesn't really get you anywhere a whole lot faster than observing the speed limits and it's a whole lot safer, i.e. if you happen to get one tire off the side of the road and correct the situation. Your vehicle is a lot less likely to roll during the correction or over correction if it isn't going at a high rate of speed and, of course, you don't always have to be checking your mirrors for the "flashing lights."
Not speeding suits me just fine. And thanks for the compliment. I plan never to have to use my smile to try to get out of a ticket. Although, I will smile if I'm ever stopped because I can rest easily in the fact that I won't have been speeding. Patti was right all those years ago. I am a boring driver. Love ya'.

juli said...

That image makes me laugh: "And, it's darn hard to push on the brake, jump out of the vehicle and run to the back fast enough to see whether the brake lights are on."

Patti & Dave Wynn Family said...

I can see Tal's sense of humor in you. I still remember telling that cop what a boring driver you are. I'm glad it got you out of a ticket. It was the truth. However, when you ran in to pick up your prescriptions, did you keep dad buckled in his car seat, take the keys, and leave the window cracked?

Marilyn Ehlers said...

Patti - I did leave Jack in the van. His seat belt was buckled. I turned the van off but left the radio on because he was listening to Paul Harvey or something. So that means the keys were in the ignition. However, I knew I wouldn't be more than two minutes at the Pharmacy. He is rarely ever able to get himself out of his seat belt. I usually have to push the button for him so I wasn't worried. And, if he had been able to get himself out of the seat belt, it would have taken him longer than two or three minutes to get out of the van and walk around to the other side and climb into the driver's seat. Actually, he is well aware that he is not allowed to drive so he has made no effort to do so. He just complains about it all the time. A couple of days ago he said, "You just brought me here to put me in prison." I queried him about that and he said, "I'm going to get the police or some new doctors or someone to get my license back. This is crazy that I can't go anywhere." Of course, I'm the "main villain" in having his license yanked. I am his "enemy." The truth is, that I never said a word to any of the doctors until after they had told him he could not drive. One or two of them asked me privately (after the fact) if I thought he should not drive and I had to agree 100% with their assessment of his abilities. Oh, well! Thanks for the support. I love you.

Chris and Bruce said...

Oh, life in a small town. How reassuring to know that you are known by the authorities without having your face on a Wanted Poster.

Ember said...

Awww.... I love fun stories! Well, I like all your stories but particularly the fun ones cause, as most people know...I'm all about fun.

SasquatchIII said...

LEAVING BABIES IN THE CAR IS AGAINST THE LAW!!! Just kidding but seriously Ive been pulled over about 12432512351235 times, but im happy to say I am over 3 years ticket free now!

Marilyn Ehlers said...

Hey, sasquatchiii, you had a bit of catching up to do. Glad you were able to find the time. I know my posts are long but I try to give all the details so everyone will understand what things were like and what really happened. Keep checking in. I love hearing from you and I love you.